| You know the feeling
– it’s that grip of terror eating at your stomach when
you look at your bank account and realize with horror that you won’t
be able to meet your bills this month. Whatever
the reason – you just lost your job, your job hunt is dragging
on or you’re struggling to make ends meet on a meager paycheck
– you dread the prospect of what could happen if things go
on like this.
So, you go on line and read articles about how
to save on household expenses, learn to live on less and stretch
what you do have to make it last. With regret, you also familiar-ize
yourself with debt management strategies, and start freezing your
credit cards in blocks of ice.
But even if you did all these things, you’re
only alleviating the symptoms, not curing the problem. Despite what
you may think, your lack of money isn’t the problem; the real
problem is your belief in lack.
That’s right, your belief that you don’t
have enough money will virtually guarantee you won’t have
enough, and that everything you’re afraid will happen, will
happen.
But you can do something about it; something that
may change the way you view life forever – you can change
the way you think. When you change the way you think, eve-rything
changes – what you say, what you do, how you act, and most
importantly, you change the way other people respond to you.
The Law of Attraction
This happens because of the Universal Law of Attraction through
which you draw to yourself whatever you focus on. The Law of Attraction:
- Turns your conscious and subconscious
thoughts, words and beliefs into “dem-onstrations”
which mirror your thoughts words and beliefs.
- Works for everyone exactly the same way.
- Is totally consistent, reliable and predictable.
- Is always “on,” and is everywhere
all the time.
- Doesn’t have an opinion about what
it does.
This last point is so important to remember if
you think the world is against you, you have a streak of bad luck
or just can’t seem to get a break. The only person causing
your “bad luck” is YOU because you’re thinking
negative thoughts and so you’re attract-ing negative demonstrations!
Thoughts Are Things
What is a demonstration? Let’s go back to your fear you can’t
pay your bills. All you can think about is how you lack enough money
just to get by; forget luxuries like movies, eating out and new
shoes.
And just when you really need things to get better,
they start getting worse! The car breaks down, the washing machine
dies, Junior breaks his leg, and Kitty has to have a series of expensive
shots.
If you’re working, things just don’t
seem to go your way. A promised promotion falls through, a “sure
thing” sale dies unexpectedly and your boss throws a fit when
you try to be a bit creative.
You dread going in to work but have no choice;
with your background and at your age, you’d be lucky if you
found something comparable. Besides, you can’t afford not
to be working even a little while with the bills piling up.
So you grit your teeth and make it through each
long day, praying that something better will come along.
If you’re job hunting, you make it to the
second round or think you’ve nailed a job, but for some reason,
things just don’t seem to gel. You can’t understand
it; you’ve done everything the books and websites said to
do -- you pitches yourself, gave all the right answers, and even
hired a “professional resume writer” to make you stand
out from the competition.
There’s only one explanation, you think.
Something must be wrong with you.
New Thoughts = New Things
So how do you break this cycle of negative thoughts becoming negative
things? It’s easy to say but difficult to do: you have to
change your thinking.
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To make the Law
of Attraction work for you by design instead of by default,
you have to stop focusing on what you don’t want and
start focusing on what you do want.
You have to consciously, deliberately and
intentionally stop thinking negative thoughts and make yourself
have positive, empowering and encouraging thoughts, particularly
while you’re experiencing negative conditions.
Your negative conditions will continue as
long as you hold negative thoughts, and will automatically
begin to improve when you hold positive thoughts. That’s
the Law of At-traction at work. |
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Remember, the Law of Attraction doesn’t
care what thoughts you have; it will simply turn all your thoughts
into demonstrations. So are you going to let fear ruin your life or
take control of your life by controlling your thinking? |