| Have you ever
noticed that traditional job hunting is all about doing something
– making phone calls, sending emails, reading the job boards,
“networking,” etc.? But just
how effective is this “busy-ness” in getting you closer
to that paycheck? If all it does is keep you focused on how much
you hate being unemployed and how increasingly urgent it is for
you to get a new job, maybe it’s time for a change in tactics.
Do nothing.
Stop the running around, the franticness and the
desperation. Stop doing the things that make you feel helpless,
trapped and unemployable. The more you do traditional job hunting
tactics which aren’t working for you, the worse you feel about
yourself, so stop doing them!
Just breathe.
Stop focusing on the future and the fear of what
might happen if you don’t get a good job (or any job) soon.
Stop anguishing about the past, the jobs you lost, the opportunities
you missed, the mistakes you think you made or what “shoulda,
coulda, woulda” been.
Focus only on this moment.
The most important thing you can do is to understand
that to get that dream job, you don’t have to “do”
anything at this moment except know what you want and believe you
can have it.
The most powerful force in the Universe is the
Law of Attraction, and you are using this Law right now, whether
you know it or not. You are attracting to yourself whatever you
put you focus on, regardless of whether you really want it or not.
The process of attracting your dream job (or anything
else) starts with shifting your thinking from a mindset of lack
to a mindset of abundance. When you focus on your bills piling up,
you actually attract more bills to pile up! But when you focus on
abundance, you attract more abundance, including money.
Developing an abundance mindset starts with being
grateful for what you already have at this moment, regardless of
your circumstances. So, what are you grateful for? Here’s
a typical short list:
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Health
Education
Family
A place to sleep
Food
Clothes to wear
Friends |
Pets
A child’s smile
Emails and the internet
A working computer
Neighbors
A spiritual community
Being alive at this time in this place. |
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Take another deep breath.
Because your outer circumstances reflect your
inner state of mind, having an “attitude of gratitude”
can make all the difference in your life, and in particular, your
job search. Instead of griping over how hard it is to get hired
(which makes it harder for you to get hired), try focusing on how
blessed you are by repeating an affirmative prayer like:
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I
relax, releasing any person, place, thing or event in the
past and present which deters me from my highest and best
good. I allow the past to simply be what it was and move forward
with ease, joy and grace knowing that I have infinite choices
and the Universe supports every one of my choices.
Today, I choose a career which uses
my unique talents and abilities and a place of employment
in which I am appreciated, respected and amply rewarded for
my work. I enjoy my work, my like-minded colleagues, satisfied
clients, my excellent income and my life.
I am so grateful for everything I have.
I am grateful for health, the people in my life, peace, contentment,
tranquility, serenity, creativity, abundance and prosperity.
With a heart that is full of joy for
my blessings, I release my word knowing that everything I
desire is now manifesting in my life in the right way, at
the right time for everyone’s highest good. And so it
is.
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Jesus said, “It is done unto you as you
believe,” which means your thoughts and feelings become your
experiences. Negative thoughts result in negative experiences and
positive thoughts result in positive experiences.
It’s often very challenging to be positive
when you’re in a negative situation, but it’s essential
to be positive in spite of those conditions because your condition
will change only after you’ve changed your state of mind.
If you can’t quite manage a positive state
of mind, focus instead on shifting into neutral, releasing the fears,
the worrying and the burden of having to “make it happen.”
Just do nothing for a while and notice the difference
in how you feel. And that will make all the difference in what happens
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