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I can hear you saying, “That sounds far too easy. Just ask
for the job I want and I can have it?” Yes, it really is that
easy. The hard part is believing it is that easy.
You’ve probably been taught
to believe that job hunting is hard and you should expect a long,
difficult and problem-filled struggle. Well, if that’s what
you believe, then that’s how your job hunt will be. But it
really doesn’t have to be that way, and this article will
explain why.
You’ve probably read lots
of articles and books on job hunting and found that despite the
confusing and often conflicting advice, they all say pretty much
the same thing:
- Looking for work is a full time job and
no one ever said it was easy.
- You have to beat your competition to
a pulp with a “killer” resume and cover letter or
you won’t stand a chance of standing out from the pack.
- Your first hurdle is getting past a resume
screener in Human Resources, whose sole function is to weed you
out.
- Be ready to “sell yourself”
and answer all the questions right, even the weird ones.
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Expect to face a lot of rejection before
you land something decent. After all, it’s tough out there,
especially if you’re over 40, been laid off or out of
work a long time, don’t have a degree, connections, training
or experience, and/or are a veteran, an un-retired retiree or
a stay at home parent coming back into the workforce.
Being between jobs is bad enough
because it’s natural to be filled with fear, doubt and confusion
for a while when you’re facing the unknown, but the Traditional
System of job hunting adds insecurity, unworthiness and isolation
to the mix.
Have you had enough of not getting
hired? Are you ready for an entirely different approach that actually
works? Well, it’s very simple – all you have to do is
change the way you think about yourself as a job seeker, the job
search process and the people you will meet along the way.
But first, I am going to share
with you something so simple yet so powerful that it may change
your life. It is an ancient principle that has been written about,
taught and – not surprisingly – suppressed for thousands
of years. When you learn what it is and how it works, you can use
it to bring that dream job – and anything else you desire
– into your life easily and virtually effortlessly.
I have used it since I was 17
to get into the college of my choice, when I didn’t have the
grades or SAT scores, didn’t know anyone on the inside, didn’t
have a grant or scholarship, there was enormous competition from
all Baby Boomers going to college and this was a small private liberal
arts university that could pick anyone they wanted. And despite
all that, they picked me.
And I’ve been using it for
the past 35 years to get every job I ever wanted easily and effortlessly,
even when I didn't have the qualifications, didn't have any experience,
didn't know anyone on the inside, there was enormous competition
and the economy was either in the tank or getting there.
“It” is the Law of
Attraction (LAO), which you may have heard about as “The
Secret.”
The LOA is a Universal Law, just like gravity, soil and electricity,
and like all the other Universal Laws, this is what we know about
it:
- It only
does one thing and it does it exactly the same way for everyone
all the time.
- It is totally
impersonal, has no feelings, doesn’t have opinions, pass
judgment or play favorites.
- It is always
“on.” You can’t turn it on or off, get away
from it or affect it in any way.
- It operates
with mechanical regularity, is totally predictable and absolutely
infallible.
- We know that it works, but we don’t
know how it works.
So what does this mean to you?
It means that you are creating your own reality right now through
your thoughts and beliefs (even your subconscious or “hidden”
beliefs). In other words, when you focus on what a tough time you’re
having finding a new job, you’re having a tough time finding
a new job simply because you’re focusing on what a tough time
you’re having finding a new job!
You can use the Law of Attraction
to bring you what you want, instead of more of what you don’t
want. Begin attracting your dream job by “asking” for
it the right way by intentionally changing your negative thoughts
and statements to positive ones, like this:
Negative Affirmation: I’d
love to do that, but I can’t because _____________.
Positive Affirmation:
I’d love to do that, and there is no reason I can’t.
Negative Affirmation: No one
returns my calls.
Positive Affirmation:
Since I want this job, it’s up to me to call them.
Negative Affirmation: There
are no decent jobs in my field and I don’t want to move.
Positive Affirmation:
There is plenty of opportunity for me in my field right here in
my area. I probably haven’t been looking for them in the
right places.
Negative Affirmation: There’s
just too much competition.
Positive Affirmation:
There is more than enough work for everyone who wants to work,
and my perfect job is waiting for me to claim it.
Negative Affirmation: I hate
being interrogated in interviews.
Positive Affirmation:
My interviews are pleasant conversations with my peers and whether
or not we end up working together, it’s always nice to meet
someone new.
Negative Affirmation: Looking
for work is a full-time job, and no one ever said it was easy.
Positive Affirmation:
Everything I do brings me closer to my right employment, and I
look forward to each new day with joy, knowing that my dream job
is mine now and is already on its way to me. And so it is!
The first thing you should do
is to create a picture of yourself in your new job and capture the
feeling of being there. Doesn’t it feel great? Hold on to
the feeling of having that job and continue changing your negative
thoughts to positive ones. This should make you feel great and in
control of your life which, by the way, you are.
As you’re doing that, start
thinking, speaking and acting as if you had that job right now by
doing the things you would do – read the trade magazines,
do freelance work, take classes, go shopping for the clothes you’ll
be wearing, make up a business card with your new title, read business
and trade publications to keep up with what’s going on and
who’s doing what, and go meet your peers at trade groups and
industry events.
Now it’s time to take action,
so follow your intuition and reach out to companies most likely
to need you – not as a job seeker, but rather as a problem
solver. Do your homework on these companies and learn about their
problems, challenges and opportunities. If you’re going to
be hired, it’s most likely to help them overcome their problems,
meet their challenges and/or take advantage of their opportunities.
If you’ve held the vision
of knowing what you want and embraced the “being-ness”
of having it (even before you’re hired), you won’t have
to do much of anything because the Law of Attraction will create
demonstrations of your belief that you already have a job like this.
And before you know it, you will!
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